Most people will periodically go to the dentist to check if their teeth and gums are in good health, take their car to the mechanic to get it serviced and take out home insurance in case anything unforseen should happen.
So why isn't there the same attitude about relationships?
Very few people would wait for all their teeth to fall out before admitting there's a serious dental issue that needs attention. Or for their roof to collapse before wishing they hadn't put off purchasing home insurance. But when it comes to relationships, the opposite is often true.
Most people will ignore the signs that their relationship may need some fine tuning, instead choosing to bury their head in the sand and struggle to find a way out.
Healthy couples are those that are open to using their relationship as an opportunity to grow together. They are prepared to invest the time to check in with each other to keep them on track together, knowing the value of investing in a healthy, open dialogue.
However it can feel daunting if you're unsure of how to approach these conversations, and that's where we can help. If you think it's time to invest in your relationship with the same consideration as your car or home, call us for a relationship review.